You Cannot Please Everyone All of the Time
The chances are you love magic. That’s why you took it up as a hobby, put in the practice, and now looking to perform it on a professional basis. However, not everyone will have the same enthusiasm for it as you do. Don’t take it personally.
Don’t think you haven’t done your job if not everyone is amazed and enthralled by everything you do. There will be some guests at an event who will follow you around, watching trick after trick and be disappointed when you say you are leaving.
There will be others who will begrudgingly watch a little before getting distracted. Though most will have manners to at least give it a go, join in (and maybe even end up enjoying it), there will be some who don’t.
Yes, try to get them engaged and enjoy the magic, but it isn’t your goal to convert everyone you meet to the Church of Close-Up Magic. If everyone loved magic then everyone would be a magician! The chances are they have jobs, hobbies and interests that would bore you – so don’t take the high-ground and think that you and your passions are superior you theirs.
Imagine a graph showing what people thought of magic and magicians, and that graph is like a bump. It starts low on the left, rises to a peak, then drops away on the right.
The vast majority of people enjoy magic to a greater or lesser extent. Most of the people you will met at an event fall into this group. They’ll happily spend ten minutes watching your magic, enjoy it; and welcome you back to the group later in the evening. The magic you perform will add to their experience of the event, and they may even take your business card and consider you for a future event themselves
The people who love magic will be excited to see you and watch your magic; they’ll be eager for you to return, and will be telling other guests about you and the tricks you perform. They may even be hobbyist magicians themselves.
Finally the group who hate magic will hate it regardless. They may be polite and try to sit it out, but they won’t want to engage. Their eyes will probably be looking around the room.
There’s likely a band or style of music you don’t like (perhaps jazz, heavy metal, opera or pop music), that’s how they feel about magic. Say you don’t like opera, even if someone played the “best” piece of opera by Mozart it’s unlikely you’ll enjoy it and suddenly become a fan.
Accept it, and make sure you do a good job for those that enjoy magic.